Technical Influence Module: Debating Tactics – Part 1
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1. Why would I want to learn about Debating Tactics?
Everyone needs to engage in debate and negotiation at work. Perhaps
it's at project reviews, or at appraisal interviews. Maybe you manage
or supervise others, or need to manage your boss. Come to think of it,
most meetings and discussions are about exchanging views. How would it
be if you were even more confident and effective in putting your own
views across, and in helping other people to consider them.
If there were a systematic way of creating responses and debating points, would that be worth some study? If so, read on...
2. How are we going to do this?
We’re going to introduce you to 3 parts of a system for creating
effective arguments and debate points. The whole system has about 15
parts, and we’ll gradually build modules to include them all. So this
is a first taster and an introduction.
We’ll explain how each tactic works, and give you some examples.
Then we’ll invite you to practice for yourself, to build your
confidence with each tactic.
3. What are Debating Tactics all about?
Some people are naturally talented at debate and negotiation. They
easily come up with effective reasoning and they counter their
opponent’s arguments in a variety of ways. Whatever the situation, they
always seem to be able to come up with a response. They don’t always
get their way, but never seem to lose outright.
How do they do that?
Researchers have examined the various ways in which you can respond
to somebody else’s comments. They have described about 15 classic
tactics that can be useful. Most of us regularly use our own favourite
few. But if they don’t work, we can get stuck.
If you can use more tactics for debate, you have a bigger variety of
tools at your command. You can respond to different situations more
confidently. You have a better chance of having the right tactics at
your command. It's like having more spanners in your toolkit, or more
reagents in your chemistry set, or more icons on your toolbar.
Most decisions and debates rely on people's opinions, personal
attitudes and individual views, not on absolute verifiable facts. This
adds some complexity - opinions are more complicated and flexible than
facts. But it's this flexibility that you can use to your advantage.
You can use the tactics from this module to challenge opinions when
you need to. Even better, you can prompt people to challenge their own
views.
4. How the tactics work
These tactics have a factor in common - they invite the other person
to think about their view in different ways, looking at it from
different angels and loosening rigid attitudes. These tactics work best
when the other person has given their opinion in one of two ways:
i). "X causes Y". These are cause-and-effect statements.
The other person is claiming that one thing causes another thing. Often
the effect is something undesirable. Here are some examples:
- "Upgrading equipment always causes technical problems."
- "Sponsoring professional qualifications causes staff turnover."
- "We can't hire you because you're under-experienced" - or put another way, to be more obviously cause-and-effect -
"Your lack of experience causes us to say that we can't hire you".
- "We have to shelve your project because of financial cutbacks." - or put another way, to be more obviously cause-and-effect -
"Financial Cutbacks cause us to shelve your project."
- "Lack of time at work means I can't put new skills into practice."
- "This undesirable thing is a result of that thing you're proposing to do".
ii). "X is Y" - when it's a matter of opinion whether X really is Y. Often, the second bit "Y" is something undesirable. Some examples are:
- "Money spent on this technology is a waste."
- "Development of your influencing skills is impossible."
- "Your proposal is too complicated."
- "Telling jokes at work means you're unprofessional."
- "This thing is that undesirable thing."
So let's take a look at some tactics you can use to reply when
challenged in these ways. We need to transform the point that's been
made. In doing so, we weaken the argument or invite it to be
reconsidered.
Tactic 1. Re-define the Effect
Here we take simply take the undesirable bit of the statement and
re-interpret it differently. We present an alternative, more acceptable
result.
Or we take the undesirable bit of the "X is Y" and re-interpret that.
Let's look at some examples. Here we take some of the objections
listed above and show some ways that you might respond to them by
redefining the effect:
Your associate says:
"Sponsoring professional qualifications causes staff turnover."
He’s objecting to the undesirable effect: staff turnover. You might
use one of these responses that replace or redefine the effect:
- "Sponsoring professional qualifications is a way to motivate your staff and foster a long-term working relationship."
- "Staff who are sponsored through qualifications feel cared for and are more inclined to stay with their company."
- "Sponsoring professional qualifications gives you a more switched on, capable and committed workforce."
In each case, you've redefined or replaced "causes staff turnover" with a more appealing, more positive opinion.
Here's another example for you.
Your associate says:
"Upgrading equipment always causes technical problems."
He’s objecting to the undesirable effect: causes technical problems. You might use one of these responses that replace or redefine the effect:
- "Once established, this upgrade will lead to greater efficiency and reliability."
- "In fact, upgrading equipment causes greater capabilities which far outweigh any initial teething troubles."
- "Upgrading equipment can happen with minimal problems if we are given the resources to do it right."
Again, you've taken the chunk of the argument that he's objecting
to, and redefining it. You replace it with a more appealing concept.
Getting the idea OK? Just to be sure, here are some further examples to
check out.
Your associate says:
"Lack of time at work means I can't put new skills into practice."
He’s objecting to the undesirable effect: “can’t put new skills into practice”. You might use one of these responses that replace or redefine the effect:
- "Lack of time means that you need to become more effective by developing better skills."
- "Lack of time means that you should now be developing your abilities to say "No" and to delegate work."
- "And the way to regain some time is to experiment with new personal efficiency skills."
Your associate says:
"Money spent on technology is a waste."
You might use one of these responses that replace or redefine the undesirable idea “a waste”:
- "Money spent on technology is an investment in greater capability and efficiency."
- "Money spent on technology keeps us ahead of the competition."
- "Money spent on the right technology will continue to give us the edge over our competitors."
Your associate says:
"Development of your influencing skills is impossible"
You might use one of these responses that replace or redefine the unhelpful idea “impossible”:
- "Development of my influencing skills may take some effort, but it will be very worthwhile."
- "Development of my influencing skills will be a new departure for me, but an entirely possible one."
- "Development of my influencing skills depends on my attitude rather than yours."
Your associate says:
"Telling jokes at work means you're unprofessional."
You might use one of these responses that replace or redefine the unhelpful idea “unprofessional”.
- Because I am professional, I tell appropriate jokes at appropriate times."
- Telling jokes is a way to release tension, so that we can return to serious work refreshed and alert."
- Telling jokes at work helps me maintain warm working relationships with my professional team."
And so onto the next tactic in your toolbox...
Tactic 2. Intent
For this tactic, we usually focus on what the other person is trying to achieve, what they want.
We then point out an unexpected or unintended result of their proposal.
This can be a very effective negotiating tool, because it does not make
the other person look small or stupid. You acknowledge that they are
well intentioned, and then draw their attention to a factor that they
may not have been aware of.
An alternative "Intent" tactic is to clarify your own intentions.
You state what your (good and worthy) intentions actually are.
Let's illustrate these ideaswith some examples:
Your associate says:
"Sponsoring professional qualifications causes staff turnover."
You focus on their intent - which might be to avoid staff turnover, and keep the best technicians in the team. You recognise this helpful intent, and then suggests an unintended result:
- "I know that you intend to keep hold of your best technicians, but
do you really want an unchanging team of frustrated and under-qualified
people?"
Or you might imagine that their intent is to reduce the HR development budget. Again, you don't challenge this positive intent. But you do point out how it runs contrary to a much bigger financial aim:
- "Your intent to save on HR development budgets is admirable. And if you want to get maximum return on your much bigger salary bill, you'll want your staff to become highly competent through professional qualifications."
Or you might clarify your own intent in this discussion. Perhaps
you've proposed a training programme, and have met with the objection
above. You need to reassure the other person what you really want.
- "I'm not trying to make your staff leave. I'm trying to help them
stay as part of a supportive, professional and highly productive team
that you can be proud of."
Here's another example of how you might work with Intent.
Your associate says:
"We can't hire you because you're under-experienced" - or put another way, to be more obviously cause-and-effect -
"Your lack of experience causes us to say that we can't hire you".
Here are some responses to the objection that focus on intent. The
first two acknowledge that the other person has a positive intent.
However, you then point out other factors which may tempt them to
loosten their thinking.
- "I know that you intend to hire an experienced person, but you
might end up with a tired and cynical old dog who can't learn new
tricks."
- "I know that you intend to use experience as a factor in selecting
for this post. However, I hope you won't overlook the other important
attributes that the right person will need."
This example works with your own intent. It clarifies that you're
not intending to deceive the other person, and emphasises a very
positive intent:
- "I'm not trying to pretend that I'm highly experienced. I want to
extend my experience whilst making my mark in this sector of the
industry. I'm looking for the right team in which to excel."
Here are some more examples of how you can counteract arguments by working with your intent or theirs.
Your associate says:
"We have to shelve your project because of financial cutbacks." - or put another way, to be more obviously cause-and-effect -
"Financial cutbacks cause us to shelve your project."
Responses to the objection that focus on intent:
- "I realise that you intend to save money by shelving the project,
but you will be losing the financial benefits that the project is set
to deliver"
- "This project is not designed to waste money, our intent is to deliver benefits with real value to the company."
- "I can see that you're looking to make a short term saving. Do bear
in mind that the cost of missing this project could be enormous - we
will lose all the benefits it is designed to give."
Your associate says:
"Lack of time at work means I can't put new skills into practice."
Responses to the objection that focus on intent:
- "I know that you intend to keep your workload under control. And if
you don't try out any new tactics for managing your work you'll always
be just as short of time as you are right now."
- "I can see that you only want to take on valuable activities,
because your time is so precious. Surely gaining new skills will be
very valuable if they help you release more time."
- "I'm not suggesting that you waste time on new skills. I'm
suggesting that you invest some time now on skills that will help you
release time."
Your associate says:
"Your proposal is too complicated."
Responses to the objection that focus on intent:
- "My intent was not to confuse you, but to demonstrate that I've thought the plan through thoroughly."
- "I realise that your role is to work at the big picture strategic
level. And the complexities of this plan are relevant to delivering
that big picture."
- "I appreciate that you don't intend to deal with the complex
detail. I just don't want you to feel that I hid any important elements
of the plan from you."
And so on to our last new tactic for this module...
Tactic 3. Our Ideals
For this tactic, we focus on the appealing or important ideals or principles that drive our own proposal.
We contrast these with less appealing ideals that might drive
opponent's proposal. Usually they don’t explicitly say what that ideal
is. We have to guess. And this gives the flexibility to guess something
that makes our proposal stand out as favourable by comparison. We need
to take care here. We usually don’t want to offend our associate by
suggesting that they are motivated by immoral or evil values.
The best ideals to use in support of your your own case are those
that your opponent or the team or the company have already established
as important. Your organisation's mission statement or your
department's main functions are good sources of useful ideals.
Once again - some examples will help to clarify how this works:
Your associate says:
"Upgrading equipment always causes technical problems."
Here are some responses that contrast ideals. This first one assumes
that your associate’s ideal is to have zero technical risk, and that
your higher ideal is to have industry standard equipment:
- "Surely it's more important to have industry standard equipment, than to avoid any technical risk."
This next one is more aggressive. It suggests that your associate is
motivated by extreme risk aversion, and it sets you up as progressive
company leader:
- "Isn't our company mission all about progress and growth, rather than stagnation and decay?"
This one contrasts the unhelpful ideal of fear with the more helpful ideal of supporting the business.
- "Shouldn't we support the business with modern equipment, rather than being frightened off by potential teething troubles?"
This strategy works by aligning your point of view with a generally
accepted ideal or "truth". "Obviously" we need industry-standard
equipment; we're all agreed that we're into progress and reject decay;
we support the business fearlessly. Everyone who's really on board
with reality would agree, surely...
And you need to exercise care. People's ideals are important to
them. And they don't like being accused of having unappealing ideals.
So the example "Isn't our company mission all about progress and growth
rather than stagnation and decay?" might ruffle a few feathers. In
effect, you're accusing your associate of holding "stagnation and
decay" as key ideals. This is no problem with the right person, done in
the right way. It can act as a useful shock tactic. However, many
people would be offended. If in doubt, go to a different tactic.
Here are some more examples of debate using the Our Ideals tactic.
Your associate says:
"Telling jokes at work means you're unprofessional."
Responses to the objection that contrast ideals -
- "Isn’t it more important to focus on a team’s results rather than whether they manage to avoid having fun?"
- "Surely encouraging wit, creativity and good working relationships is more valuable than suppressing them."
- "Our mission this quarter is to deliver the Beeblebrox project. We have no objectives about becoming humourless."
So there's some theory and some practical examples.
Now - go and make it work for you...
5. Putting it into practice
Thesetactics can be very effective when used in live debate. To do
that, you need to be familiar with how they work and well-practiced in
their use. A great way to develop these skills is to work with the
sorts of arguments and objections that you encounter most at work. Make
a note of the debating points that you'd love to have a better response
for. Make a note of the stock answers that your colleagues habitually
give to justify this or that.
Then spend some time constructing possible answers, using each of
the 3 tactics described above. Use your own words, so that you can
speak naturally. There is no single right or wrong answer. Play with
ideas. Write down your best ones, then come back later and refine them.
Experiment with using the tactics you've developed. There are 2 main ways to do this:
1. The prepared response.
Having done your prep work on the most common objections that you
have to deal with, you have tools at the ready. Try them out as the
objections come along again. So you're ready when an IT user comes out
with:
"Can't you just fix it now? Logging issues on the system is a waste of time." you can respond with something like:
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Logging issues on the system guarantees that your problem gets the attention it deserves. OR
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I'm not trying to waste your time, I'm trying to operate to the company's quality standards. OR
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It's more important for me to give you a proper service to agreed
standards, rather than cutting corners or doing unprofessional work.
2. The pre-emptive strike.
You have your list of debating points that your colleagues are
likely to use, and you have your counter-arguments at the ready. Rather
than wait for them to raise their objection, you come up with the
counter-argument up front. This can be great for presentations and even
written reports, where you have time to think beforehand.
You know who are the people at the presentation that need
convincing. You can have a good guess at the objections that they might
raise, or at least the issues that concern them. So you put your
counter-argument in there even before they have opened their mouths.
You don't raise the objection for them. You just answer it, which may
well stop it arising at all.
For example, you're presenting a proposal for a technical upgrade to
your business team. You know that at least one of them is very wary of
the technical problems that can be encountered during upgrades. This
has killed other proposals. So you go along prepared. You include in
your presentation comments like:
- Once established, this upgrade will give us much greater capability and reliability, far outweighing any teething troubles.
- It's important that we have industry-beating capabilities,
delivered by this upgrade. And pursuing that capability is more
important than eliminating all technical risk.
- I know that we alll want to minimise technical disruption during
the upgrade, so I propose to give it the preparation it needs to happen
smoothly.
This doesn't guarantee that you'll get no objections, or that
they'll agree to everything you want. But it does give you a good start
because you've answered some of their queries before they could arise.
Now go and try it out for real.
Look out for other tactics from this family in later technicalinfluence.com modules.
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